Oakdale, Suffolk County
Oakdale wedding venues
Three Oakdale venues, two of them catered by Lessing’s. All three print a per person rate on their own sites, and one prints every fee.
Three Oakdale venues, two of them catered by Lessing’s. All three print a per person rate on their own sites, and one prints every fee.
The Snapper Inn prints $110 to $195 per person on its packages page, varying by package, season and day. View starts at $129 per person on the Lessing’s venue page. The Bourne Mansion starts at $119 per person on its private events page, while Wedding Spot lists $195 for a peak Saturday. Both Lessing’s venues add a 22% administrative fee and tax, per their menus.
Singer-fortune Oakdale mansion running grand weddings with in-house catering.
One of the rare Long Island venues that prints its rates: $110 to $195 per person on its own site, plus a $5,000 tent if you marry there.
A working Oakdale seafood restaurant on Great South Bay with free deepwater docking, a 180 seat buyout and a published $129 per person starting rate.
The Snapper Inn publishes a $1,000 site fee and a $1,000 on site ceremony fee. An on site ceremony also requires a $5,000 cocktail hour tent and bar rental. Packages run five hours, and an extra hour costs $15 per person.
The Bourne Mansion states one event per day on its weddings page. The Snapper Inn does not, since it keeps serving the public in its dining rooms. View’s full buyout is 180 seated and 200 cocktail style on the Lessing’s page.
Three more South Shore venues sit a short drive east and west. The Mansion at West Sayville starts at $80 per person on its own page.
A 1909 mansion on Suffolk County parkland at the Great South Bay, capped at 205 guests, publishing $80 per person and a 22% administrative fee.
County golf-course mansion in Great River looking over the water.
Private beach and a fire pit on Great South Bay in Sayville, with a 4,700 sq ft ballroom seating 350 and a separate 2,400 sq ft cocktail room.
Lessing’s, exclusively at The Bourne Mansion. View’s starting rate is published on the Lessing’s venue page.
A $1,000 on site ceremony fee plus a required $5,000 cocktail hour tent and bar rental, on top of a $1,000 site fee, per the Snapper Inn’s own site.
Yes, now. Its private events page says starting at $119 per person, with a $3,000 advance deposit, and its menus add a 22% administrative fee and NYS sales tax. Its weddings page still shows placeholder text in the same block.
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