The full directory lands here, sorted four ways, because those are the four things that decide it. While the first listings get built out town by town, this is how to run the search like a local.
Every venue we can verify on the Island, and the ones that stopped taking weddings are marked. Run one? Claim it free.
Marble, chandeliers, and a Great Neck name every Long Island family knows.
All-inclusive Woodbury mainstay with an inn on the property for the out-of-towners.
Country club name, catering hall machine, with grounds built for photos.
Package-and-production fixture with a serious sweet 16 game.
Baldwin hall overlooking Milburn Pond, a South Shore family staple.
Massapequa mansion with the bay at the back door.
Manor house on Jericho Turnpike with gardens that do half the decorating.
Colonial-era inn and village that has hosted every kind of family party for generations.
White-glove hotel wedding in the middle of Garden City.
Restored New Hyde Park landmark with ballrooms that photograph like a mansion.
Gold Coast event house on the old du Pont estate, run like a luxury hall.
The castle. Formal gardens, the famous staircase, weddings run in-house.
County-owned harborfront mansion with a boathouse, catered by its exclusive operator.
The old Guggenheim castles on the Sound, booked park-style with approved caterers.
State arboretum with a Tudor hall in the middle, permits and caterers required.
Westbury House and its famous gardens, the raw-estate route with the biggest payoff.
Singer-fortune Oakdale mansion running grand weddings with in-house catering.
County golf-course mansion in Great River looking over the water.
The Lombardi family's Holbrook hall, one of their rooms across the Island.
All-inclusive stalwart running weddings and sweet 16s in the same week.
Ronkonkoma hall with the lake out the windows, big on quinceañeras too.
Wading River complex with ballrooms, a hotel, and room for the whole weekend.
St. James celebration grounds where the gardens come with the ballroom.
Patchogue room on the Great South Bay from the same Lombardi family.
Ballroom with the Great South Bay running past the windows.
Historic Stony Brook inn for weddings that want charm over chandeliers.
Garden-wrapped venue at the gateway to wine country.
Rebuilt top to bottom, with packages to match.
Smithtown golf club that books outside weddings with fairway views.
Commack club with a clubhouse ballroom and no member requirement to book.
Mount Sinai's course-side ballroom looking down the fairways, formerly the Hamlet Willow Creek.
Old-line private club on a Gold Coast estate; ask about sponsorship on the first call.
Private Sound beach in Bayville, ceremony on the sand and cocktail hour up the steps.
Prime's event room on Huntington Harbor, boats going by all night.
Port Jefferson hotel on the harbor, wedding and room block under one roof.
A working paddlewheeler that boards in Bay Shore and does the reception afloat.
Cutchogue winery with a modern tasting house and vines in every direction.
Peconic winery built like a Mediterranean villa, a North Fork wedding classic.
Southold house of sparkling wine, which tells you how the toasts go.
Riverhead vineyard with wide-open rows and a new-school tasting room.
One of the Fork's originals, pouring its own label on Sound Avenue.
Greenport's 1850s manor house, harvest-country grand.
Jamesport inn with rooms upstairs, built for the small wedding weekend.
Working Cutchogue farm where the ceremony borders the crop rows.
Catering house in the vines, the turnkey way to get the wine-country look.
Cocktail hour at the shark tank, run by a full-time banquet team.
Planes and rockets over the cocktail hour in Garden City.
Eagle's Nest, the Vanderbilt estate over Northport Bay, booked through approved caterers.
A restored 19th-century village, barns, greens, and all.
Real hundred-year-old barn inside Caumsett State Park on Lloyd Neck.
Oceanfront rooms, a spa, and a ballroom over the dunes.
Harbor-side resort on Star Island with docks in the photos.
Bay-side Montauk restaurant with parties right on the sand at sunset.
Shelter Island inn a short ferry from Sag Harbor, calm water and lawn.
Bridgehampton's restored 1840s house, hotel and restaurant included.
Sagaponack vines and the rosé everyone at the wedding already knows.
A 120 acre Lessing's estate in Woodbury whose wedding menu publishes a 22% administrative fee, one of the few on Long Island that prints the number.
Inside Bethpage State Park and formerly Carlyle on the Green, with Wedding Spot listing $160 per person for ceremony and reception across six hours.
Oceanfront in Atlantic Beach with a beachfront space Zola rates to 700 seated and a package that bundles photography, video, DJ, florals and cake.
A 1918 Roslyn Heights mansion restored to its 1920s look, with a 150 guest minimum and a peak season starting price of $35,000 on WeddingWire.
A Smithtown prime steakhouse and sushi room that closes to the public for one wedding a day, with the bar list published down to Macallan 12.
A three level Freeport waterfront building with a rooftop ceremony deck, listed on WeddingWire at $100 per person off peak and $110 in peak season.
Private beach and a fire pit on Great South Bay in Sayville, with a 4,700 sq ft ballroom seating 350 and a separate 2,400 sq ft cocktail room.
Seven acres of gardens, waterways and fountains on Hempstead Harbor, running three reception rooms and taking weddings from a 60 guest minimum.
Four private acres in Franklin Square with a waterfall ceremony site, one wedding at a time, and a 150 guest minimum published on the venue's own site.
A purpose built 2016 clubhouse in Melville with a ballroom seating 300, full day access to the grounds, and real candles allowed in glass votives.
A 1909 mansion on Suffolk County parkland at the Great South Bay, capped at 205 guests, publishing $80 per person and a 22% administrative fee.
An oceanfront Long Beach hotel with rooms upstairs, a rooftop pool deck ceremony and an enclosed 4,686 sq ft rooftop venue for about 200 guests.
A working Oakdale seafood restaurant on Great South Bay with free deepwater docking, a 180 seat buyout and a published $129 per person starting rate.
A Bayville hall on Long Island Sound with 18 foot ballroom ceilings, one event at a time, and a Saturday guest minimum fifty higher than Friday's.
A restored 1927 theatre on Jericho Turnpike that runs a wedding across four floors, with all inclusive packages advertised from $13,595 for 80 to 100 guests.
The former Carltun, rebuilt and reopened in September 2023, with a 450 seat ballroom in Eisenhower Park and a stated one wedding per day.
Ceremony in the sand at a state park beach, cocktails on the boardwalk, a ballroom for 250, and $129 per person printed on their own site.
Rebuilt and reopened in 2022 with a 5,087 square foot ballroom, rooms and cottages on six acres, and Union Square Events catering from $350 per person.
A 5,500 square foot ballroom for 400, a second room at 220, two dedicated cocktail spaces, and no published price of any kind.
A Glen Cove hall marketing itself for Indian and multicultural weddings, with a $55 to $150 per person range published only on Eventective.
Three named ballrooms on Old Country Road with a 50 guest floor, and per person figures that swing from $95 to $150 depending on the marketplace.
A ceremony on the ocean sand at Jones Beach with one 250 seat ballroom behind it, and a published guest range starting at 30.
A working marina venue in East Patchogue with dock ceremonies, family run since 1993, and an $11,800 off peak starting total on The Knot.
The former Sans Souci house above Long Island Sound, one event at a time, a 205 seat ballroom, and $155 to $225 a head published on their own site.
A Great South Bay hall in Lindenhurst with two ballrooms at 300 and 180 seated, a boat arrival option, and a website we could not read.
A 1910 Charles A. Platt house on 55 acres with 186 hotel rooms, a 220 seat ballroom indoors and a tent published for 700 outside.
A 1929 waterfront club in East Setauket with a pavilion ceremony on the water, a 120 guest Saturday minimum in season, and $165 per person peak.
A Centerport hall on Mill Pond with a 300 seat Summerwind Ballroom, a stated one wedding at a time, and 2027 to 2028 winter packages already selling.
A 1923 Tudor Revival house on 86 acres above Long Island Sound, rented as a venue only for a flat fee, with a caterer you hire yourself.
Owner run catering on a Great South Bay golf course, with events up to 350 people and every published price hidden behind a lead form.
A Bay Shore restaurant with four event rooms from 30 to 250 guests, whose wedding hall trades under a second brand we could not verify.
A harbor side vineyard with a circa 1690 tasting room, capped at 200 guests, one wedding at a time, with weddings run entirely by Lessing's.
A Bethpage hall with four rooms, an on site chapel and over 550 seats, whose package pages list every inclusion and publish no price at all.
A Southold house dating to roughly 1765 with a 60 seat restaurant buyout at one end and a 225 person lawn reception at the other.
A 1927 Devereux Emmet club on 130 acres in Hewlett Harbor that states on its own site that non members can book its rooms.
A restored 1933 art deco theater in Riverhead whose house lighting and sound comes with the room, with weddings capped at 278 on WeddingWire.
A public Montauk beachfront hotel selling a full property buyout, with an event ceiling of 250 guests and beds for only 82 of them.
A 1916 Devereux Emmet club in Garden City that says outright a membership affiliation is required to host an event, so a member must sponsor you.
A ferry only Shelter Island boathouse on 18 acres, booking one event per weekend April through November, with a $15,000 building fee on its rate card.
A Greenport vineyard on the Long Island Sound that publishes a $25,000 to $35,000 site fee and tents up to 300 guests from May through October.
The 1897 Atterbury building that housed the original Parrish Art Museum until 2012, now renting for weddings held among live exhibitions.
A boutique Amagansett hotel on two acres taking up to 250 wedding guests, where The Knot posts a $70,000 start and the hotel publishes nothing.
A Laurel vineyard sold to Dan Abrams and renamed Ev&Em, where marketplace prices from $7,000 to $7,500 all predate or postdate an unverified rebrand.
A 133 acre East Norwich golf estate whose events are sold by an outside operator, PH Event Group, with no published membership policy anywhere.
An East Setauket working farm listed at $4,000 to $11,000 per event for 50 to 250 guests, with outside catering allowed and no first party source we could read.
A 16 room East Hampton hotel whose biggest wedding space is an outdoor garden seating 110, with 48 seated indoors if the weather turns.
A private 1966 golf club in Saint James with a 1929 mansion clubhouse over St. James Bay and no published policy on outside weddings.
An Atlantic front Westhampton Beach club with a 220 guest ballroom, a private beach ceremony area, and 2026 memberships you do not need to buy.
A 50 acre Brentwood golf club with no membership requirement, starting at $75 per person on its own private events page, with in house catering mandatory.
A 1950 Northport catering hall of roughly 9,700 square feet that WeddingWire says charges no site fee and runs one wedding at a time.
A purpose built Southold event property with a 50 slip marina on Peconic Bay, open to anyone, carrying a $46,000 starting price on The Knot.
A Cutchogue winery built in 1991 as an integrated operation, booked as a full vineyard buyout, with up to 200 guests according to WeddingWire.
A Nassau County arboretum charging $9,000 for an outdoor reception up to 130 guests, with a hard 10pm finish and no dancing inside the house.
Long Island's original vineyard, planted in 1973 and Borghese owned since 1999, hosting weddings with no published price, capacity or end time.
A Rockville Centre hotel where the on site caterer publishes packages from $54.95 per person, with a 50 guest minimum and a four hour hall rental.
An Island Park waterfront catering hall with a 5,500 square foot ballroom and a 7,500 square foot cocktail room, whose operating status we could not confirm.
Non members can book here in writing, and the club's March 2024 PDF prices a $2,000 ceremony fee before any food is discussed.
Two marketplaces list it as active and its own website would not load for us, and the only per person figure published anywhere is a $115 bar rate.
A 1959 inn that seats 70 indoors and 125 in the garden, with brunch wedding packages listed from $110 per person on Here Comes The Guide.
North Hills sits at 200 Long Island Expressway in Manhasset, plays a Robert Trent Jones Sr. course, and will not host your wedding without a member sponsor.
A 1900 Codman mansion on 145 acres where the biggest wedding space seats 150, booked through a catering brand the museum's own site barely mentions.
A site fee plus your own caterer, with WeddingWire listing $8,500 in peak season and $5,500 from November to April at the Southold property.
Open to the public, one affair at a time, and a ceremony fee that WeddingWire puts at $750 in peak season and $400 off peak.
The retractable glass roof is the reason to look, and The Knot's $10,000 starting figure is the only price published anywhere for this room.
A 17 acre Sound Avenue vineyard that funds a horse rescue and publishes no price, no capacity and no policy for weddings.
Four private floors and one wedding a day, with a 22% facility fee and a 100 to 120 guest minimum published on the campus FAQ.
Seven event spaces on about 10 acres, a lawn that takes 200 and an indoor room that takes 125, on an island reached only by ferry.
The Knot says $5,500 to start and WeddingWire says $12,500, and the venue's own events site publishes no rate at all.
Weddings run in four months only, May, June, September and October, with up to 300 under one tent, and the club never says whether a non member can book.
Ninety rooms in Southampton village, a lawn Wedding Spot caps at 400, and a $100 per person Saturday minimum the hotel itself never mentions.
Village owned, open to non members by its own FAQ, with a ballroom for 400 and Lessing's running the kitchen since March 2025.
An Amagansett beachfront resort that reads as a private club and is not one, with an $8,000 starting price listed only on The Knot.
Members only for Mansion events since the Village's 9 April 2025 notice, on roughly 210 Sands Point acres with a Tom Doak golf course.
A riverfront Calverton farm taking 50 to 200 guests June through October, open to any caterer you hire, with amplified music off at 9pm.
A Montauk resort selling a tent up to 60 by 80 feet and 67 rooms on site, with no price and no guest capacity published anywhere.
A Nassau club whose weddings page still takes inquiries while a January 2026 report says the course has stopped operating as a club.
A 1,500 square foot barn on a 28 acre museum farm that takes 99 guests, rented dry, with a $1,000 deposit against a site fee nobody publishes.
A Cutchogue winery capped at 125 guests and twelve weddings a year, with a printed site fee of $9,000 for dates from June through November.
A Uniondale hotel with a 9,720 square foot ballroom seating 700, and published catering menus that run $24.00 to $95.00 per person.
A Shelter Island inn on the harbor with an $8,530 peak site fee listed on WeddingWire, reached only by ferry, which decides when the night ends.
A 1922 Seth Raynor club in Old Brookville with a 250 guest ballroom and no published answer on whether non members can book it.
A 28 acre Brookhaven farm that prints its fee: $14,000 for 26 guests or more, including exclusive use of the place for the whole weekend.
A Riverhead hotel that runs one wedding at a time and lets the music go to 2:00 AM, with 240 indoors per Wedding Spot.
A 1927 Nassau club that opened to the public, runs one event at a time, and carries a $135 per person starting figure on The Knot.
One of the rare Long Island venues that prints its rates: $110 to $195 per person on its own site, plus a $5,000 tent if you marry there.
A family run North Fork estate winery, in the Massoud family since 1983 and available year round for ceremonies, with no price published anywhere.
A Nassau hall with a Grand Ballroom listed at 520 on The Knot and four named packages, including Maharani and Baraat, none of them priced.
A Great Neck hotel that takes weddings from 10 guests up to 200, with 85 rooms upstairs and no per person rate published anywhere.
Macari's Cutchogue property, now a 20 acre event venue tented late May to early November, with 2027 site fees from $14,500 on The Knot.
Seven catering rooms running from 18 guests to 700, on a Franklin Square site that has served food since 1939, with no price published.
The old East Hampton Point, rebuilt and reopened in 2021, with three ceremony sites, 13 cottages and not one published figure of its own.
A village owned Nassau club whose events run through CulinArt, with a ballroom over 300 and marketplace site fees starting at $20,000.
A Hempstead Harbor yacht club seating 125 in its main room that never says whether a non member can book a wedding there.
Long Island's largest vineyard at over 300 acres, renting raw space on weekdays only from May through September, with no published site fee.
A Rocky Point hall open since 1995 that runs one wedding at a time and keeps its pricing behind a download form.
Over 1,200 feet of private Atlantic oceanfront, an outside caterer in Robbins Wolfe, and a May to October season, with the membership question still open.
A 1916 Delano & Aldrich manor that says it books members and non members alike, with a $2,000 ceremony fee on WeddingWire and no per person rate anywhere.
A 75 acre Peconic orchard with a private Sound beach, outside caterers allowed, and one site fee on record that lists peak season below the starting rate.
Five weddings a year, a mandatory 13 room buyout for two nights, and 150 ceremony chairs included, with no published price on either of the inn's two sites.
A Town of Smithtown golf club with no membership gate, three event buildings, and one published capacity: 150 guests in the Riverview Pavilion.
A public catering hall on Lido Beach that runs one event at a time and two bridal suites, with a single price on record: $7,500 for 100 guests.
A tented North Fork vineyard for up to 100 guests, with no in house kitchen, no guest minimum, and an 11 PM music cutoff set by local ordinance.
A 1917 club on 210 acres whose FAQ states weddings are open to non members, with a 300 guest ballroom and no published price of any kind.
A sailing club founded in 1891 with eight rooms and two terraces, capped near 200 guests, where a member has to sponsor the event you want to hold.
A member owned club on over 160 acres that publishes a new ballroom, an unresolved 1947 founding date, and not one word about whether outsiders can book.
A public state park ballroom over Montauk Lake, run by Lessing's, with $129 per person on Wedding Spot and a midnight cutoff on the music.
A Greenport hotel with a private Sound beach and 55 water view rooms, seating 130 with a dance floor and taking 200 standing, with no price published anywhere.
A Great Neck estate seating 240, one event at a time, where the catering partner prints $125 per person and the venue itself prints no price at all.
Guest count first. The number of people you're inviting rules out half the rooms before you look at a single photo, so lock it down and only tour rooms that hold it. Region next, Nassau or Suffolk, close in or out east, because where the room sits decides how far your people have to travel. Setting after that, since a couple set on a vineyard will never be happy in a ballroom, and the reverse is just as true. Budget last, by price per head, so nothing you fall for turns out to be out of reach.
Catering halls, Gold Coast mansions, North Fork vineyards, waterfront rooms, country clubs and the small spots all sit in the same list, filtered down to the few worth a Saturday tour. Every listing gives you the numbers up front: seats, location, whether the ceremony can happen on site, and the shape of the package.
A room has a count it was built for, and it is not the maximum on the brochure. Put 120 people in a room that holds 300 and the dance floor feels like a gym at a quarter capacity. Ask every venue what count the room feels best at, not what it legally holds. Remember the plate count is bigger than the guest list: the band eats, the photographer eats, and if the ceremony happens on site, the chairs for it come out of the same square footage the cocktail hour wanted.
Book three tours in a weekend, four at the most, because after that the chandeliers blur together. Take the same six photos in every building: the entrance, the cocktail space, the dance floor from where the head table sits, the bridal suite, the bathrooms, and the parking. The bathrooms and the parking tell you how the place is really run. Ask who else is booked on your date, and get every quote in writing, broken out line by line. Then sleep on all of it. A hall that pressures you to sign in the room is answering your most important question for you.
Six venues, from an aquarium ballroom to two dry hire sites where you hire the caterer.
Four venues. Two state one wedding at a time and two print a starting rate.
Four venues, two of them on the Fox Hollow campus, with the 22% facility fee in print.
Oheka, Coindre Hall and Harbor Club, and all three book one wedding at a time.
Three venues that publish almost no prices, and exactly what each one does say.
Leonard’s Palazzo, The Mariner Estate and the Inn at Great Neck, side by side.
A hotel, a private club and an aviation museum. None prints a per person rate.
All three print a per person rate on their own sites, and one prints every fee.
Bedell Cellars and Salt Air Farm, two pricing models on one stretch of Route 25.
Of the 164 venues on this site, 30 print a per person rate or a site fee on their own sites. Every figure word for word, in sortable tables.
Ten venues say on their own sites that the caterer is yours to hire. Seven more let you choose from their approved list.
50 venues say it on their own sites, in their own words. 16 more say it only on a marketplace listing.
Ten venues print a clock time on their own sites, and only one runs past midnight. Most 2 AM finishes come from Wedding Spot.
Nine venues put the rain plan in writing and three include the tent in the fee. Where the indoor room is smaller than the lawn.
Two venues name rehearsal dinners themselves. Ten more publish a small room with a seated count.
Korean paebaek, Chinese tea ceremonies, Nigerian, Greek and Persian music, and the seven venues with an on site chapel.
Fourteen synagogues that host weddings, two glatt kosher kitchens, five venues that bring one in, and who supervises each.
The diocese bars outdoor and tent Catholic weddings. Parish lead times and fees, and churches that marry non-members.
Six mosques publish a nikah service, one free of charge, plus halal caterers and venues.
Ten venues publish a South Asian page, and several name the baraat, the mandap and the fire ceremony.
Bilingual officiants, DJs who MC in Spanish, mariachi, Latin menus, and the venues that say so.